How-To Introduce a Shy Fearful Dog to Someone New

How do I Introduce My Shy and Fearful Dog to Someone New?

Do you have a shy or fearful dog who wants to run and hide from a new visitor?

Here are a few steps on how to introduce him or her to someone new:

1. If possible, take your dog on a long walk before your friend is to arrive.  Having your dog tired and with less pent up energy is best.

2. Have your friend enter your home without ringing the buzzer, door bell, or knocking on the door and have your dog in another room.

3. When your friend enters your home, have her sit down and get comfortable. The breakfast bar or kitchen table is always a good spot.

4. Have your dog’s favorite bag of treats readily available on the table.

5. When ready, bring your dog into the room wearing her leash making sure to keep her by your side until she is completely calm and at ease.

6. Don’t force an introduction.  Let your dog decide when the moment is right to ‘sniff out’ and inspect your new visitor.

7. If your dog can’t seem to remain calm and be at ease, remove her from the room and take her to a space where she feels more secure and content.

What should your friend do who is being introduced to your shy and fearful dog?

1. They should IGNORE your dog.

2. They should not make eye contact with your dog.

3. They should not speak to your dog.

4. They should not pet your dog, lean over him, or reach a hand toward him.

5. They should understand your dog will approach them on his own terms.

6. They can toss treats toward your shy or fearful dog if he seems interested.

7. If things are going well and your dog is accepting of the treats (a great sign!), your friend can offer your dog a treat directly from their hand.

8. If things aren’t going well, remove your dog from the situation and take him to a part of the home wear he can relax.

If you don’t think the meeting with your friend and your shy and fearful dog will go well, you can leave them in a different room with the door shut along with a tasty chew toy or Kong to keep him happy and occupied while you friend is there.

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